Falling in love

You can't blame a girl for falling in love with what she wants to hear...

When a guy tells you everything you have always dreamed about, it is hard not to fall for that guy. It might be a frighting feeling at the beginning and you may resist it, but the more you hear it - the more likely it is too fall in like with that guy and eventually fall in love.

This is one of the most dangerous things - emotionally - I can think of.

When you fall in love with somebody, they become your whole world. When you meet new people, it is the best fun too find out more and more about them. If jealousy comes from hanging out with new people, it might not be the right time for (the right person) to become your world. They might become your world one day, but if you don't think of them even when you are meeting new people - might that be a sign that it is too early for them to become your world?

Having someone as your world - and them wanting you as their world - is not such a bad thing... and is definitely on my "to-do-list". Just not now while I am still young and willing to do everything with everybody.

When you fall in love with somebody, it is because they say exactly what you want to hear. And you can't blame a girl for falling in love with a guy telling her exactly what she has always dreamed of hearing!

The trouble comes in when one guy tells you exactly what you want to hear, except for one detail. Then another guy comes around and tells you what you want to hear, and he tells you what the first guy didn't, but he leaves out other things you want to hear. And when a third or fourth guy comes around - things get messy!

How do you know which one is the one? Do you give them all a chance? Do you give them all a chance at the same time?

In my life, my dad is the most important man in my life - since I don't have any brothers. Next to him is my cousin - who is like a brother to me. Is it okay for me to leave the decision up to them? Is it okay too let the guys win over the two most important men in my life?

Is it okay too like more than one person at the exact same time?

Is it okay for me, not to want the one for me, right now?

Is it okay for me, too care for myself until the one comes along and changes my life, agrees with what I feel, says what I want to hear? Loves me for exactly the way I am?

Is it okay for me, too just be me, until my time comes to grow up?